This is where you have to make a choice of what you want in your life or from your life? Do you want a big car, big house, the promotion at work that you deserve, lots of friends (real friends) and a great wife/husband with maybe even a cozy little family? Or do you want to live in fear of the tax man, the bailiffs, have a small shack for a house, be a widow, with only friends that will use you and a dead end job that you work your ass off at without any recognition from your colleagues or your boss?
Neither of these maybe exactly what you want in life but I could probably place my life on the fact that there is no doubt that you would prefer the 1st option (who wouldn't?). If you would prefer to live in fear of the bailiffs then I seriously think you should consider checking in with a psychiatrist. I'm serious there because myself and 99.9% of people would think of this as the nightmare of all nightmares.
the great thing is that no matter who you are, what you look like how old you are, or how much money you currently have in you bank account you can choose to live like either of these examples. How can you do that you may be asking me? By making a CHOICE. A choice to be positive in everything that you do. Go to work with a smile on your face today and feel the difference it makes, don't be so negative when you 1st go in. Go in upbeat and greet your co workers with a pleasantry and a smile. By doing this you maybe surprised with the reaction from your co workers and hell it may even rub onto them. You will feel better and happier within yourself not to mention the benefits that your co workers will gain form your upbeat attitude.
Every action we do we do when we make a decision to do it. Every decision we make shapes our lives. For example if we decide to go through your life with a negative attitude then we will get poor results because we won't believe in the things that we are doing. We won't believe that we can achieve any goals or challenges that are both given to us or we make ourselves. On the other hand if we choose to be positive in everything that we do then we can learn to expect good positive results with everything that we do.
If we can change our thoughts to be positive almost all of the time then we should and will get positive results. But we can only learn to think positively through habit, if we are negative in life this is through habit also. To change one habit the easiest way to do this is by replacing it with another habit. In this case change your negative thoughts with positive thoughts. So how do we turn positive thoughts into being a habit that we will also do subconsciously? The answer is simple, through repetition. If we repeat things over and over again we will start to believe and this is what you must learn to do, you must learn to believe. You will believe if you try to be positive for a couple of days that being positive can change your surroundings for the better. Just try it for a couple of days and if you don't see a difference in your life then by all means you can throw in the towel and say that I have being speaking crap. But I can guarantee 100% that you will notice a difference if you keep your eyes open to it. Whether it's in your own life or the way people act towards you, you will see the benefits of thinking and acting positively in everything that you do.
So back to our main point, the man or woman that gains the benefits from everything that they do in there lives is the man or woman that has gone through life with a positive mental attitude. Those who sit and whinge about how life has throwing them a bad hand and they have no luck are doomed to fail forever. They will never succeed in anything that they want to succeed in because they have stuck in there head that they will fail. If we believe that we will succeed then we 100% will find a way to succeed. No matter if we are dealt with temporally failure, we will find another way to succeed until we have what we want. So never give up and think positively with everything that you do.
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