The simplest way to succeed...

If I were to tell you how to succeed you would expect it to be complicated. You would expect me to take years to teach you how the most successful people are just that, successful. But in reality it's just so simple.

But before you hit the close button on you browser STOP. Although it's so easy to know what you should do to succeed in reality it just is not as easy as to know what to do, you also need to know how to do it. For me to show you how I would need to teach you every step of the way.

So what will allow you to succeed beyond you wildest dreams? What is this secret? Well this is no secret you have done this so many times in your life in fact you do it everyday in some way. All you need to do is copy someone else. It really is that simple, think about it, how do you learn?

Most of everything that you now know today is because you have copied what someone else has shown you to do. Are you a Joiner, Plumber, IT assistant or even a Shop assistant? The fact is whatever job you currently are you firstly had to be shown how to do it didn't you?

Now you should not copy someone that is where you are if you are to succeed beyond your wildest dreams. For example if you are a Gardener and want to become a self made millionaire, you will most certainly not succeed by copying your fellow workers. if they knew why are they still level with you. Instead find someone who has done this themselves and find out all about them and copy their model of how they succeeded.

It really is that simple, but to really do it with the least amount of temporarily defeat or failure you really should invest in a mentor or a life coach. For more info on how to succeed visit http://letsbeconfident.com

What is N.L.P. and can it work?

There are many different ways to live the life you want but N.L.P. is a fascinating concept that may be different than any others that you have tried before. It is readily used by famous authors such as Paul McKenna, Richard Bandler and Anthony Robbins (Who invented his own form which he calls NAC).

So what is N.L.P.? It is in short the study of excellence. It is believed that by studying other people in fields of excellence that anyone can achieve similar results in their lives. For instance if you want to be a entrepreneurial genius you might decide to mirror Richard Branson or even Bill Gates.

There is a lot more to it than that but you get the basics of it there. So onto the main question can it work and more importantly will it work for you? In short yes it can. CAN being the main word here and an important one also. If an trainee employee can succeed by shadowing their boss there is proof that N.L.P. can also deliver. But it requires effort of your part which is something few people put in to new things if they don't believe in them.

I have studied many different ways to increase my and other peoples confidence and N.L.P. is by far the most complex and also the most confusing (maybe even strange) process to achieve confidence. But if you can stick with it I am sure you will experience great benefits. I have been hooked by the power of N.L.P. I have even enrolled into a practitioner course to further my knowledge on the topic so that I can put to use those skills on top of my own skills. 

Does Hypnosis work?

When I 1st started to study the art of positive thinking and being confident I have to admit at 1st I would not even consider Hypnosis I wouldn't bother even looking into the thought of it. I thought that it was just nonsense. I mean I've watched the stuff on television where they ask you to look into there eyes and suddenly you are under. I know a lot of people are the same and probably with good reason as well. There are people out there that could take advantage of this. But 99% of stuff we watch on television is garbage, you will not be hypnotized by a professional in this way. We are also hypnotized to do things everyday. I'm sure you've watched advertisements on the TV and Billboards?

Well if you have that's a form of Hypnotism. They used to play advertisements in the cinema to make us buy popcorn and sweets. It used to only play to our unconscious mind so we wouldn't notice it. Thankfully that is now deemed to be illegal and I hope there is no cinema left that is playing these advertisements. So if they can hypnotize us for a bad purpose then can't we be hypnotized for a good purpose?

Makes you wonder huh? Well that is what made me change my mind and buy my 1st book on Hypnotism. It's called "I can change your life in 7 days" By Paul McKenna. I have recently finished reading this book and as positive and confident that I knew and thought I were, there turns out there were stuff deep rooted from my childhood that were still holding me back. Only Hypnotism could've brought them to the surface and, yes I feel even better than I did before. As much knowledge that I have discovered over my 6 years of study I have never learned as much in all those years than I have in the past 7 days. The man is a genius.

So to my point, I have a great amount of knowledge but what I have now learned is that no one can teach us it all. Choose to learn confidence from more than 1 even more than 5 people and you are almost guaranteed to have learned more than those who don't. If you are skeptical about hypnotism just give it a try and if it doesn't work for you at least you have tried and won't have to wonder, what if??? I believe either way it will be the best decision you have ever made.    

What are you worth?

What do you think you are worth both in terms of happiness and income? It's often what we think about ourselves that determine what other people think of us also. If you think that you don't deserve happiness then guess what you get? That's right a life of misery and underachievement. You need to change how you think of yourself before you can expect people to start respecting you.

The problem is how and where do we start to change how we think of ourselves. The problem here is how we think of ourselves was most likely what our teachers, parents and anyone we looked up to when we were young told us we were. If we were told we were useless when we were a child we will begin to believe that and carry it into our adulthood. So in order to change how we feel about our self we must start  by imagining a bigger and better you and keep imagining this until you can clearly hear yourself, see yourself and even smell yourself.

Now I know this may sound ridiculous but this is tremendously effective and it does produce results. Try it and I promise your thoughts of yourself will change for the good dramatically and you will feel a lot better about yourself and how much your worth inside. Go on have some fun with this and find out what the real you looks like, then you can become what you were designed to be.

Using Books as an Inspiration

Most of us read books since you are reading this I can only presume that you are the same. Books are a great form of motivation if we read the right books. There are lots of motivating books out there and they are one of the best ways to get to where we would like to be in life. Biographies are an excellent form of inspiration that we may need in our lives. I believe that we get the best knowledge from reading about other people and it is the closest you can come to having a personal mentor in the field of your choice without having to spend thousands of dollars (Unless we know someone personally).

You may not already know that the best way to get to where you would like to be in your life is by following someone who is already there. For example if you want to be a great business entrepreneur you may try to copy what Theo Paphitis has done. Most of us do not have the money to pay to have the likes of Theo teach us to become just like himself. But we do have the money to buy his biography (which by the way is a great read and I would highly recommend it). So books can give us the most knowledge in our chosen field that most of us can afford. No matter how you learn to become what you want I can put all my money on the fact that you will make mistakes, everyone does so you will too. When the inevitable does happen then treat the temporally failure as your friend and learn from it. The good new is that we learn more from our mistakes than any other form of studying because we feel pain with failure therefore it stays in our head so we can avoid it in the future.

Books can give you the motivation that you need and if you require more info keep up to date with this blog because I will be posting where you can get all of the info for gaining Confidence and Motivation through Reading. I am currently writing an E-book called "The Bumper Guide to Increasing Your Confidence" which I'm sure you will find of great interest. Alternatively you will be able to download one of my Mini E-books for free, instructions on how to do this will be posted here in due course.

In the mean time keep checking back here for more exciting Info on How to live the life of your dreams. 

Let's Build A New Tomorrow Today!

People tend to go around dreaming of a better future. You most likely do it everyday, you might think about having a big yacht, a fancy car and living in a big mansion. Or maybe you are living alone and you are dreaming of having the perfect family with a couple of kids and maybe as dog or two. Well whatever your dream is, I am here to tell you that it won't happen, you will never live your dream! Confused how can someone who is supposed to think so positively be saying something so negative? My answer is so simple. You will NOT achieve your dreams end result because you need to start 1st. You need to take action to get to the end. For example you can dream about going on a holiday to hmmm let's say Barbados, but you 1st need to take action to get there. So 1st you need to book your holiday and probably a hotel, next you most likely will need to save some spending money (unless you already have savings), then you need to get up on the day and catch your flight. Only once you do that will you get there. Sounds obvious doesn't it? Well it is, but people just go through life thinking that their dreams will just become a reality and therefore they never get the chance to live their dreams.

The reason I believe for people never achieving there dreams is because of two things, which are:

1. They are too lazy to put the necessary effort into achieving their dreams
2. They lack the necessary knowledge on where to start to accomplish their dreams

If you come into the 1st of the two then before you can achieve any of your dreams you must 1st stop being so lazy and I have bad news for you. The news is, only you can do more and help yourself achieve your dreams no one else can achieve your dreams for you, my advice would be to get off of your backside and start achieving goals 1st and then you can chase your dream.  If you lack the necessary knowledge to achieve your dreams, well you've come to the right place because I am here to help you. Well if you are ready fasten your seat belts and lets start achieving our dreams.

first things first we need to start with the basics and that is the little things that we do everyday can change everything in the long run. The road we go down, the things we buy and even the people we talk to can change who we are and ultimately who we become. Everything that you do today will change what will happen tomorrow. So start by making choices now. Make decisions that will ultimately lead to your dream. If you need the certifications or the specialized knowledge to become the CEO at you job and that is your dream then start by studying today. Don't put it off until tomorrow because the sooner you start the sooner your dream will become reality. One tip of mine is if you need specialized knowledge the web is full of it. Just search on Google and you will get a few good pieces of info while you may be waiting for a Book or DVD being delivered.

Next it's time to start making some Goals. Now I went over making Goals in another post so I won't go over it all again here. But Goals are one of the most important things in making our dreams become reality. If you don't have Goals then I can almost guarantee that you won't live your dream. Even if you got your yacht by winning the lottery there is a chance that your dream will become your nightmare. The reason being is everything you have will become boring eventually, that's why making goals is so important. We should live our lives by making goals and then achieving them. This will make our lives more interesting and I can guarantee that you will not ever have the chance to be bored. If you do then your goals must be too easy to accomplish. Our goals must be challenging or they will become boring. We should always challenge ourselves because then we will learn what our limits are and always want to get going.

This is the ultimate success formula that will get you on the path to achieving your Dreams, I believe everyone has a Dream and if you don't it's about time you thought of one. Why live our lives if we have nothing to dream of? I used to hate living my life the same everyday, that is why I decided to become a motivator. I want to help people like yourself because I take great pleasure in not only helping people but knowing that I have the knowledge to help people. Let me share with you my biggest dream and one that I am on the 1st steps to achieving which is to hold World Wide Seminars on the topics discussed on this Blog. One day I will see my biggest dream become reality, because I have the right resources and the determination to make my dream become reality, the biggest question I have for you ,DO YOU?

The Cost Of Failure.

Most people live life as a failure. In there heads the can not achieve their goals so they go to a job they don't like, they go home to their 'Homes' that they all hate and the drive long distances in a car they all hate. So the question you might be asking yourself right now is why? Why live their lives like this if anyone can achieve success in their lives? The answer is quite simple they have conditioned themselves to believe that they are not good enough to live the lives of their dreams. They believe that they need degrees, and money to achieve what they need. Although degrees may certainly help in some circumstances they are not necessary. Many people have exploded their financial income with little or no qualifications, such as Anthony Robbins, Theo Paphitis, Bill Gates and many many more. In fact I believe that self study such as books and even the Web may be a better way to learn than University and college.

A very famous author once said "what ever the mind can see and believe the mind can achieve". A phrase that has stuck into my head ever since. I recommend that you read his book 'Think and grow rich' you can purchase it at amazon.com. This is so true because when you have a burning desire so strong that you can almost smell it as if it were already in your possession you will go to extraordinary lengths in order to achieve what you desire so much. Your mind attracts what your mind keeps thinking about. The same happens if you keep your mind thinking about your debts and how bad you life is. You will keep getting the same of what you have already got.

So how can we change what we keep thinking about?  The answer is simple but achieving the results requires dedication. But do your dreams not deserve some dedication on your part? I believe that all my dreams deserve all the dedication that I can give to them and so do yours. If you can believe that you will one day acquire riches then it will become true. The mind seems to attract what it thinks of most like some kind of magnetic force. The problem is that it requires a lot of exercise on your part to make your thoughts always believe you can and will achieve what you dream of achieving. If you can do that then you will most certainly achieve your dreams. Don't ever allow yourselves to fail, if you don't give up you cannot have failed because you have not finished yet.